YOU ARE SO AMAZING JUST THE WAY YOU ARE!

When babies are born, their self esteem are so high to a point they
are able to demand and get what they want. If it's the breast milk
they want, they will cry until their mothers provide it. Whether it's
dipers, they will do the same until
you change them. Even if they are twins, triplets or quadriplets, they
wouldn't care, you just cater for their needs and you won't hear a
single noise.

I don't know why when a person is growing up, that "braveness" begins
to diminish. You may find a small child aged between 7 to 14 years,
his/her self esteem has worn out just because a teacher said "you will
never amount to anything in life"! Therefore that statement will begin
eating the kid up. (Parents and teachers, there are some statements
you shouldn't utter to a growing child because they will affect
him/her)
.

If it is a boy, he will grow up knowing he is nothing and end up in
drugs, crime and impregnating small girls. He will want to accepted in
the society, and since he was told nothing good can come out from him,
he ends up in the bad company where he feels accepted. Due to this the
guy wouldn't become what he was meant to be.

If it is a lady, the same thing will happen. She will grow up knowing
she is worthless, not beautiful, not sexy, meaningless etc. Therefore
she will start proving that she is beautiful and sexy enough by giving
men her body. When the lady gets pregnant, she will opt to abort the
foetus because back of her mind she knows nothing good can come out of
her, even a good mother. At long last, the lady ends up not fulfilling
her assignment in life.

But who said you have to listen to what other people think of you to
know your greatness? That's a lie from the devil! The holy book says
"you are fearfully and wonderfully made"! So you don't need someone to
tell you how great you are!

If someone cannot accept you the way you are, then give him/her a red
card in your life! No matter how beautiful or handsome they are, they
mean nothing to you! So just know you are so amazing the way you are!

THE ONLY PEOPLE WHO SHOULD MATTER IN YOUR LIFE ARE THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN YOU!

Everybody has people who interact with him/her every single day of
ones life, from birth
to death. They are doctors, nurses, parents, relatives, friends,
teachers, lectures, employers, employees, colleagues, spouses and the
list is endless.

Some of these people are assigned to make sure that you succeed in
life, while others are there just to hinder you from your destiny. One
should be able to distinguish the difference between these two kinds
of people, because not everyone you interact with wants the best out
of you! Others want you to fail so that they celebrate your
misfortune.

Those people who believe in you will always be there for you no matter
what. They know the future holds success for you. Making sure that you
achieve your ultimate goal is always their work. Even if you make a
big mistake, they will always say "get up, and try again". All you
have to do is doing the best to never disappoint them.

But there are others who dont something great can come from you. These
are people who you shouldn't even interact with because they are
always pessimistic about you. They use your weak point to crictise and
backbite you. The moment you do a slight mistake, that is the perfect
time for your critics to be enthusiastic and celebrate.

What you should do to these people is to keep off! Because if you
continue entertaining them, they will drag you behind to a point you
can't rescue yourself. In fact you should block on your Whatsapp! No
matter how pretty, handsome, intelligent, wealthy they are, they will
never mean anything to you!

So it is upto you to discern the people who value you and invest more
in them in terms of friendships and forget completely those people
who don't believe in you.